Forget the Blame Game!

Stop judging yourself and other people in your life for what has happened to you in the past.  Playing the Blame Game serves no one, least of all yourself.  People did what they thought was best at the time, the same way you did. Learn to forgive yourself and others for past mistakes.  Harbouring old grudges takes up a lot of time and energy you could be using in more productive ways.


Learn how to reconcile, resolve and accept what has happened in the past and know that it has made you a much stronger person.  Acknowledge your fears and find out what's really behind them.  Many of your fears are likely to be groundless, but it is the thinking, attitudes and beliefs that cause much of the inappropriate fear.  Fear is often a disguise for your lack of belief in yourself and your judgements.